I like the revised, more realistic plan, Janice. I am right with you on all counts. I have a tool kit. I can hammer a nail, turn a screw, drill a hole, saw a board, cut a wire, etc. I can handle a lot of "fix-its" on my own. But I know when a repair is over my head and that is where my dear son comes in. He bought me the tool kit years ago and taught me how to use it, BUT he also knows that at age 79, I will call him now and again for help and he is happy to do it. I still feel independent. Everybody needs the help of experts sometimes, don't they? Keep up the good work, Janice. Sharron
Thank you Sharron. In thinking through this article, the insight was that I would be better served by redefining my definition of being independent. . . everybody needs the help of experts sometimes, as you say..
Thank you - the revised goals are more realistic, I think.
I like the revised, more realistic plan, Janice. I am right with you on all counts. I have a tool kit. I can hammer a nail, turn a screw, drill a hole, saw a board, cut a wire, etc. I can handle a lot of "fix-its" on my own. But I know when a repair is over my head and that is where my dear son comes in. He bought me the tool kit years ago and taught me how to use it, BUT he also knows that at age 79, I will call him now and again for help and he is happy to do it. I still feel independent. Everybody needs the help of experts sometimes, don't they? Keep up the good work, Janice. Sharron
Thank you Sharron. In thinking through this article, the insight was that I would be better served by redefining my definition of being independent. . . everybody needs the help of experts sometimes, as you say..
Your revised goals are sensible and realistic; great advice as we age!
Janice ~ Thank you for being my guide! xoxo
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