Hi Donna, That's exactly where I was stuck - if I were accepting Dan's death, I was okay with it - I wasn't and I'm not. I first began to look at things differently based on what Amanda Knox's comments (https://agingwell.news/p/how-do-i-make-life-worth-living) - all her wishes and hopes were irrelevant - this was her life today. When I learned the phrase - "now what I am going to do about it?" I was able to change my focus and my frame of mind.
Now acceptance comes in your last statements -I wholeheartedly miss Dan, don't like the fact he's not here, and can still have a fulfilling life.
Hi Donna, That's exactly where I was stuck - if I were accepting Dan's death, I was okay with it - I wasn't and I'm not. I first began to look at things differently based on what Amanda Knox's comments (https://agingwell.news/p/how-do-i-make-life-worth-living) - all her wishes and hopes were irrelevant - this was her life today. When I learned the phrase - "now what I am going to do about it?" I was able to change my focus and my frame of mind.
Now acceptance comes in your last statements -I wholeheartedly miss Dan, don't like the fact he's not here, and can still have a fulfilling life.