The older I get, the more changes are occurring. Not only does my body not do what it once did, but the beliefs I held for years no longer seem to apply; the losses are more than I imagined, and the world isn’t the one I knew. Time to rethink!
These are all excellent points, Janice...real food for thought as we're aging and changing. Evolving and adapting to those changes helps us find more peace in our lives.
Hi, I couldn't agree more! For me, it's about choosing who I want to be given the changes in around and within me - which in turn will bring that peace.
Wow, this is something to contemplate! What stops me from changing? I am going to need to do a deep dive into the questions you pose. Every point you make also sits on my list. Thanks for bringing this to my attention Janice.
You nailed this article. I imagined all the changes to happen way off in the future. That future is present and not accounted for. I no longer know where I stand. My solid ground is constantly shifting. This week I need to sit and write what's most important to me to keep that comes along with the changes. Not easy. I don't remember life EVER being like this in the past, even during puberty—and that was nothing to dwell on. Recently, I had the opportunity (or the curse) to run into friends from high school. That chance meeting brought back memories I've tried to forget for 50 years. After hashing those out a bit, I decided to sit down and get a grip now, no more putting it off. Where once before I had a lifetime to learn and change, now I do not. Great article.
So, true. It seems that everything I believed in and counted on no longer applies. This is a new world and it feels like I need a new game plan to participate and then there is the brick wall of age - not the number but the changes in my body that tend to limit me. Big plans but little cooperation at times.
“The older I get, the more changes are occurring. Not only does my body not do what it once did, but the beliefs I held for years no longer seem to apply; the losses are more than I imagined, and the world isn’t the one I knew.”
I can relate to that, but after the death of my wife of 51 years, leaving me a senior orphan, my question now often is, “What’s the point?”
That's a question I often ask as well. Dan and I were married for 63 years before he died four years ago. We met when we were twelve - he was the boy down the street. I do have family which is a definite plus and the writing has given me a purpose. But I've had to rebuild my life . . and a part of me - of that life remains missing.
I accept and embrace the truism that change is a constant of existence. Some change I like, some I dislike. But such is life. Railing against change will generally not change anything.
I choose to focus on the beneficial aspects of change. It allows me to let go of things I no longer need, and have new adventures and meet new people.
The older I get, the more changes are occurring. Not only does my body not do what it once did, but the beliefs I held for years no longer seem to apply; the losses are more than I imagined, and the world isn’t the one I knew. Time to rethink!
I think you are very good at embracing change. You inspire me x
I just cannot imagine you needing to change a thing, Janice. You have it together more than any person I know. You are a model for us all!
Oh Sharron, Thank you so much. The inner struggles and doubts that haunt don't always show through, I guess.
These are all excellent points, Janice...real food for thought as we're aging and changing. Evolving and adapting to those changes helps us find more peace in our lives.
Hi, I couldn't agree more! For me, it's about choosing who I want to be given the changes in around and within me - which in turn will bring that peace.
Wow, this is something to contemplate! What stops me from changing? I am going to need to do a deep dive into the questions you pose. Every point you make also sits on my list. Thanks for bringing this to my attention Janice.
Hi Donna, I am finding it is an important question to be asking myself.
You nailed this article. I imagined all the changes to happen way off in the future. That future is present and not accounted for. I no longer know where I stand. My solid ground is constantly shifting. This week I need to sit and write what's most important to me to keep that comes along with the changes. Not easy. I don't remember life EVER being like this in the past, even during puberty—and that was nothing to dwell on. Recently, I had the opportunity (or the curse) to run into friends from high school. That chance meeting brought back memories I've tried to forget for 50 years. After hashing those out a bit, I decided to sit down and get a grip now, no more putting it off. Where once before I had a lifetime to learn and change, now I do not. Great article.
So, true. It seems that everything I believed in and counted on no longer applies. This is a new world and it feels like I need a new game plan to participate and then there is the brick wall of age - not the number but the changes in my body that tend to limit me. Big plans but little cooperation at times.
“The older I get, the more changes are occurring. Not only does my body not do what it once did, but the beliefs I held for years no longer seem to apply; the losses are more than I imagined, and the world isn’t the one I knew.”
I can relate to that, but after the death of my wife of 51 years, leaving me a senior orphan, my question now often is, “What’s the point?”
Hi Jonathan,
That's a question I often ask as well. Dan and I were married for 63 years before he died four years ago. We met when we were twelve - he was the boy down the street. I do have family which is a definite plus and the writing has given me a purpose. But I've had to rebuild my life . . and a part of me - of that life remains missing.
I accept and embrace the truism that change is a constant of existence. Some change I like, some I dislike. But such is life. Railing against change will generally not change anything.
I choose to focus on the beneficial aspects of change. It allows me to let go of things I no longer need, and have new adventures and meet new people.
I like it - focusing on the beneficial accepts of the change. I have certainly acquired new skills and insights through out the changes.
❤️ and labracadabrador!